Early morning message to me.
“Dad has alzheimer’s. He always asked, even pleaded, that he not be moved to a senior care facility. Mom and dad are alfluent. My brother and I offered help constantly, to the point of moving him to one of our homes. Mom turned down the offers. Dad is in a facility now and mom seems to be having the time of her life.”
At this point, she thanked me for listening, said goodbye and hung up.